4 little principles to change your life

… Ok, maybe not change in a big way, like a lottery winning or the birth of your first kid. But, these guiding ideas will allow you to give yourself permission to be awesome!

I’m finding out more and more that people are wanting to just feel ‘normal’ and that they aren’t ‘crazy’. I got news for you, you’re not crazy. As a matter of fact, you’re more likely to be a lot more normal than you think you are.

I’ve also found out that some folks just need to feel as if they have ‘permission’ to be or feel a certain way. I’m not sure why that is, but when that day does come to allow yourself to feel and be any way you choose, that’s a good day.

So, I’ve made you wait long enough, here’s my list of 4 criteria that will allow you to be an awesome you!

1. It has to be legal – This is fairly cut and dry.
2. Is it positive? – Be very honest with yourself about this one.
3. Is it consensual? – If you’re doing something with someone else, are they OK with it?
4. Is it ethical/harmful to anyone? This one will take some thinking to get right. Often ethical questions can be tough!

That’s it!! If what you are doing fits within those 4 things, I say, “have at it! Go forth and be awesome!”

I’m rooting for you,

~Eric