Introvert or Extrovert? Love it Either Way

I am outgoing and I love social engagements. What I love even more is reading a good book by myself.

Until one year ago, I lived under the premise that I was an extrovert. I also felt like I wasn't authentically me. Something was missing and often, I would be angry at myself for not loving happy hours with my girlfriends. Well, now I know that I am more of an introvert that I ever imagined.

The thing is, the moment I realized that—everything changed. I have accepted my love for reading and spending hours by myself as honoring who I am and not being weird or depressed. I just need time to myself and that is how I recharge.

One of my clients tells me she is an introvert and it is hurting her at work. She is passed up for promotions and doesn't get great feedback like her extroverted friends do. This is a real problem for many people. We all want to do good and introverts are not any less competent than extroverts. I am not exactly sure which direction she will take, but I will silently hope that she honors herself.

I was a chameleon for many years, adjusting to every work environment I was in and it was a normal thing to do. The level of happiness I feel now, however, will never be compared to my previous state of being. The journey wasn't short or easy, but as always — well worth it. Trust that there is a perfect profession there for you and listen to that voice within.

Do you want to skip yoga or happy hour and just stay in with a good book? Then do it. You are created in God's image and you came into this world with the exact set of strengths and qualities needed for your purpose. You have a choice to embrace it now and love your needs and preferences. 

My dear client shared this video with me and I loved it, she made my day. Hope it has a message for you all as well!